You should never...

ask a question if you don't already know the reply, doubly so if you don't want the answer. My Mum asked a question this morning to which she neither knew, nor wanted the answer. On the eve of their 24th wedding anniversary she asked my Step-Father "can you see me in your future?" His honest answer was "No". Cue huge amounts of brown hitting fan.

I can honestly say that it doesn't get easier with age. My parents divorced when I was 10 and my S-F has been around since then. My Dad made a bad 2nd marriage and that divorce was welcomed. He got married again this year to a fantastic woman. However, P has been my Dad by choice for 30 years. I am very sad and I pray that this will be sorted soon (in a good way) and that we can all stay strong.

4 weeks in...

School holidays really do fly by.

How long before...

I stop looking out of the window/door every time a harrier flys past. I have been here nearly 2 years and it still excites me to see (and hear) them.

Twenty Things That...

Parents Never Say by Gervase Phinn

Of course you can have more pocket money.
I bought those chocolate biscuits just for you.
No,it wont hurt to leave your bike out in the rain.
The telephone is free if you wish to use it.
Don't bother with the dishes, I'll do them later.
I do wish the school wouldn't give you so much homework.
I like your friend with the nose stud and the tattoos.
You're not coming in too early tonight are you?
Just leave your dirty underwear on the floor.
Don't worry, I came bottom of the class when I was your age.

I hope you enjoy the rest of the late night film.
Would you like any help sticking that poster on your bedroom wall?
These trainers are very cheap.
Would you like lots of greasy food at your all-night party?
I don't think the dog is ready for a walk yet.
Why don't you stay in bed a little longer this morning?
I do hate a tidy room.
Leave all the lights on, will you?
Don't bother cleaning out the bath.
School holidays are a bit short this year.